Relationship change that sticks.
Join 3,000+ couples who have permanently transformed their relationship using Empathi therapy.
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Relationship change that sticks.
Join 3,000+ couples who have permanently transformed their relationship using Empathi therapy.
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Empathi's methods are 10x more effective.
Take it from our clients.
"You will get out of one session with Figs what it would take 10 sessions with any other therapist. You actually feel like you are 'getting somewhere' and not just doing never-ending talk therapy for weeks/months/years."
Staci J.
"I can honestly say we were in a very hopeless place when we first met Teale, and now our relationship is stronger than ever. [...] If you feel even the slightest bit moved to try couples therapy and are considering Teale, 1000000000% go to her!!"
Shay B.
"Results were felt within the first session and a fundamental shift resulted within a month. If you want results and an expansion of love, please see Karen for what will be your best investment of time, emotions, and funds."
Josephine H.
"Figs came highly recommended and boy did he live up to the hype. [...]

I don't think I'm exaggerating when I say that one session with Figs could easily equal 5-10 sessions with another couples therapist."
David S.
"We went into it hoping to get a few tools for communicating so that we'd stop getting into many hour long fights over the same topics, but came out with a level of closeness I honestly didn't ever expect that I could have with anyone."
Laurel B.
"I'd seen about 10 therapists on my own, personally, in the past. Some were good, some not. None fundamentally changed the way I see the world. [...] It's the most developed, deeply touching philosophy I've ever experienced."
Joshua R.
"You will get out of one session with Figs what it would take 10 sessions with any other therapist. You actually feel like you are 'getting somewhere' and not just doing never-ending talk therapy for weeks/months/years."
Staci J.
"I can honestly say we were in a very hopeless place when we first met Teale, and now our relationship is stronger than ever. [...] If you feel even the slightest bit moved to try couples therapy and are considering Teale, 1000000000% go to her!!"
Shay B.
"Results were felt within the first session and a fundamental shift resulted within a month. If you want results and an expansion of love, please see Karen for what will be your best investment of time, emotions, and funds."
Josephine H.
"Figs came highly recommended and boy did he live up to the hype. [...]

I don't think I'm exaggerating when I say that one session with Figs could easily equal 5-10 sessions with another couples therapist."
David S.
"We went into it hoping to get a few tools for communicating so that we'd stop getting into many hour long fights over the same topics, but came out with a level of closeness I honestly didn't ever expect that I could have with anyone."
Laurel B.
"I'd seen about 10 therapists on my own, personally, in the past. Some were good, some not. None fundamentally changed the way I see the world. [...] It's the most developed, deeply touching philosophy I've ever experienced."
Joshua R.
Get the help your relationship deserves.
We do what works.
Most couples therapy relies on personality and behavior changes that deplete willpower and create stress over time. 

‍73% of EFT couples stay better because we rewire their brains to use conflict to fuel repair... without changing they are.
No more therapist roulette.
Unlike other online therapy services, we carefully vet and directly train our therapists—no more crossing your fingers and hoping they're qualified.

Our Client Care Coordinator (a real person!) will help you find the best fit for you amongst our team of skillful, active agents.
Incremental change? We'll pass.
You'll know when it hits—the moment the tension collapses and you are finally able to love each other exactly as you are.

Our process trains you to reliably reach that place whenever you need to for the rest of your life. And then we say goodbye!
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Figs & Teale: Wounded Healers
15 years, 2 kids, and 3000+ happy couples… how did we do it??
The real story of Empathi begins with the children of two broken homes who grew up feeling so much abandonment, rejection, shame, and fear… that they'd given up on making love work long before they met.

Over and over, Teale and I recreated those experiences from our childhood in our relationships.

I remember walking on a beach in San Francisco with my mother and telling her, "I'm sorry. I am never going to make you a grandmother." 

‍I felt so deeply not enough, and Teale was so convinced that she was too much, that a happy, fulfilling relationship seemed like a fairytale.
And then we met…

‍Sparks flew... 

‍And… eventually, the negative cycle continued.

1. Teale would see me as uncaring, become disappointed in me and then criticize me…

2. Which would lead me to see her as mean, get frustrated with her, and then withdraw from her…

3. Leading her to see me as even more uncaring… and on and on this painful cycle of disconnection went.
We call this awful dance the "Waltz of Pain."
What we would come to realize through years of discovering what would become The Empathi Method, was that this Waltz of Pain is a part of every relationship.

This wasn't happening because I was broken, Teale was broken, or because we were with the wrong person…

We just didn't understand how both of us were participating in and maintaining painful disconnection and how to work as a team against it.
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Teale isn't too much. I am enough.

‍We are the ones we've been waiting for.

Even though we had no role models to look up to as kids, we get to have the relationship of our dreams…

… We get to be the parents to our kids that we didn't have when we were little…

... And now I’m a decade into a beautiful, healthy, connected marriage, with two wonderful kids who get the dad they deserve.

But here's the thing. I'm greedy. 

I want it for you, too.
There is hope for your relationship.
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There is hope for your relationship.
Most people start to feel better by the end of the first session.
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